Be different.

1/17/2010

Choices.

I'm half and half, of two different countries, and if my parents ever split up, I'd be forced to choose between two worlds. Two countries... But then I thought, doesn't everyone? As a child, you can be friends with just about everyone, but then you split off into groups, and despite wishful thinking, that's the way it always seems to go. Some when in a relationship have to choose between friends and their lover, it might not be their fault, their lover may not fit in with the others, or they could get engaged and live somewhere else. I want to keep loving all different kinds of people, but when you love different kinds of people, you find you put yourself on the line for someone, and those who have no loyalty to that someone will hold it against you, blame you for not being on their own side. People may say the good friends will understand that, you're just being who you are, there are two sides to a story, but what if the someone you stand up for is hurting the other people you love, and it isn't their fault, so you have to be there for them, because you love them, and you're other friends have to reject you, because it's hurting them, seeing you on the line, in the middle of a war. Any thoughts?

No comments:

Post a Comment